Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Katie and her baclofen pump journey

 Tomorrow Katie goes in for her 5th surgery in a year. :( She is finally having her baclofen pump implanted. Here is a good explanation of what the pump is and how it is placed. http://www.neurosurgery.pitt.edu/pediatric/spasticity/baclofen_spasticity.html
Every doctor, nurse, and therapist that she has seen, has told us how this pump will drastically change her quality of life. It will make dressing and changing her so much easier and less painful for all involved. Hopefully she will be able to tolerate trips and outings again. And the icing on the cake is we have been told that there is a high possibility that it will help calm her constant vomiting! It is hard to put into words what that means. Unless you have spent extended amounts of time with Katie for the last few months you can't possibly understand what we have been dealing with in regards to the puking. We literally can't go anywhere because she pukes non stop. And even if she isn't puking she constantly gags(loudly) and coughs to the point where she pukes. She has been completely miserable(and quite frankly so have we) There have been so many times when she has puked all over herself, and I just had to sit and cry because I was so frustrated/tired of cleaning up puke.
We wanted her to have this surgery 9 months ago! But of course there are all sorts of hoops she had to jump through in order to have it happen. She had the required trial in August, where they injected her with baclofen in her spine. Her body responded exactly how the doctor had hoped, but when she was sedated they checked her Cerebral Spinal Fluid Pressure(standard anytime there is a lumbar puncture I guess) and it was high. So we were all sent into this crazy panic expecting the worst. We weren't sure if she was going to require surgery to remove a blockage from her brain, or what the hell was going on!
She needed to have an MRI to determine and see exactly what was going on. That of course ended up being a HUGE pain in the ass. Our local hospital kept giving the run around on whether or not they would do an MRI on her because of her weight and size, because she has to be under general anesthesia for the procedure. Finally Oakland Children's Hospital got it together and did the MRI in OCTOBER! So there was two months wasted. LUCKILY there was nothing wrong that could have caused the CSF pressure to be high. It was a "false positive" if you will. We were told that if the person is not in exactly the right position when the pressure is checked it will read as high when really it is not. Whew!!
Later in October she went to what we thought was just a consult and pre-op type appt to discuss and schedule the baclofen pump surgery at Oakland Children's. Boy were we wrong! We were told that she needed to see their clinic doctors because we had the trial done at another hospital and their first appointment she could get into was February 2012!! We didn't think she could wait that long. She was in constant agony and it was getting worse and worse. During this same week her orthopaedic surgeon also informed us that her scoliosis was progressing rapidly and she would need to have spinal fusion surgery to correct it. At that time he said approximately 3 months after her pump was placed he would want to do the fusion.
So we were in limbo for weeks, trying to get into the Oakland clinic sooner, and also meeting with a surgeon at Sutter Hospital to see if he could do the surgery sooner. It was a MESS!! It was such a stressful awful time.
Finally we caught a break and they squeezed us into clinic at Oakland in December. We thought this was going to be a easy peasy appointment where they looked at her chart and agree that the pump was necessary, blah blah blah. Little did we know they had something else in store for us! Abby(Katie's Mom) took her to this appointment by herself, because Jim and I both had to work that day. Like I said, we thought it was just a check in appointment! So imagine my shock and panic when Abby called and informed me that the ortho surgeon felt that she couldn't wait any longer for her spinal fusion surgery, and that he was booking her for surgery in TWO WEEKS!!! We were not at all prepared for this. Here we thought we had at least a few months to prepare mentally(and Katie physically) for this huge huge operation.
But we all just accepted the situation(we have all become really good at this) and started putting a plan into action. And on Dec. 21st Katie had her spinal fusion surgery. She spent 2 weeks in the hospital, and her recovery has been nothing short of amazing! I am still shocked when I think about the operation she had just a few short weeks ago, and how well she is doing. She is so tough it is crazy.
She was booked for surgery on Jan. 25th, but two days before the office called and had an emergency they needed to book for that day, so it was postponed for one week.
Now here we are, finally. Surgery tomorrow. It is still kind of hard to believe that we are FINALLY here. After all of these setbacks and delays the day is actually upon us.
I will update the blog after her surgery is complete and she is settled in her room. Her surgery is scheduled for 1:30 tomorrow afternoon. Jim and Abby will be there, I am hanging back with Caleb and Reese.
Katie is finally asleep. She did not sleep at all last night. But she is finally passed out and I hope she stays that way all night!! Here is sleeping beauty:)

Monday, January 30, 2012

A new blog

I have started a second blog about my daily adventures/ tips of staying sane as a homemaker. By the way I hate that word, is there another word that is less 1942?? I will continue to post about the kiddos on here so don't leave this behind.
The address is www.ahousewifeconfesses.blogspot.com
See you there:)

Saturday, January 28, 2012

Last day of work

It's official. I am a stay at home mom/wife.
Yikes!
I have been tossing around the idea of stopping work at the salon for about 6 months now. Between ever changing kid schedules, and Jim's rotating schedule, child care was not always easy. I would end up having to cancel or reschedule clients ALL the time, and that isn't fair to them, and quite frankly is a pain the ass for me.
For the last few months I have started to not want to go into work either. I have done hair for almost 10 years now, and it has never ever felt like "work" I have always looked forward to going into the salon and spending the day with my friends, and playing with hair. But lately I have been burned out. I knew it was time to make a change.
So after lots of though, and some crying(not going to lie) I decided it was time for me to quit.
I feel so good!! Yes of course I will miss working with all of my friends, but I will still see them! I will miss seeing my clients, but I know they are going to be well taken care of! But I will LOVE having my weekends back!! I am tired of missing Caleb's sports, birthday parties, etc.
I am going to start next Saturday, a new tradition of sorts. I am going to start making a FULL big breakfast every Saturday, where we all sit down as a family(minus Katie and Caleb every other week when they are at their mom's) and enjoy a relaxing morning, when no one has to rush anywhere. I can't wait!
My long term plan? I'm not sure. I know I want to go back to school, but I'm not ready right now. Too much going on for me to focus, and let's be honest, it's been 10 years since I was in school it's going to be an adjustment to go back!
I would love to go to nursing school, like I always said I wanted to do. We shall see. I've got time:)
For now I am going to enjoy my kids, my family, and my friends!!

Friday, January 27, 2012

January??

Our weather has been SO nice, I am confused if it is really January or not? We had a good rain storm over the weekend, but today it is 70 degrees and gorgeous out!! So Reese and I took advantage and hung out in the backyard for a LONG time today. That girl loves to run around outside and play with Juneau.
 Who is this girl and what has she done with my baby?!? She is 100% a toddler now, it makes me sad :(

 Hanging with her buddy Juneau

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Sick....AGAIN

I just want to say that I am so sick and tired of being sick and tired!!!!
I don't know where we picked up this cold, but I am on day three of it, and Reese is on day two. Lovely. Its nothing major just congestion and cough, but it just sucks because it means we can't go anywhere. No playdates, or visits with friends. Just stuck in the house. BOO!
Hoping it is short lived.

Friday, January 20, 2012

Addicted

Hi my name is Ashley and I am addicted to Pinterest.

There, I admit it.
I seriously can't stop. I log on so many times a day it's ridiculous. I actually woke up at 3 am the other day because I needed a drink of water, and while I was awake I opened up the app on my phone to make sure there wasn't anything I needed to "pin" Sick I know.
But it has made me a lot more creative. I have a ton of projects to keep me busy for a long time. I have tried a bunch of new recipes. And I have had LOTS of great laughs at the funny quotes people post.
Jim thinks I have lost my mind, and doesn't understand. I'm ok with that:)
Come on admit it....you're addicted to it too!!
Back to pinning now:)

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Homemade laundry detergent

I have been seeing/hearing people talk about how they are making their own laundry detergent a lot lately. I never paid much attention to it, because to be honest I thought it wasn't going to be the same as my trusty old Gain powder. I am very picky about my laundry. I like my clothes to smell fresh and clean, but not scented. Also in our house we have some VERY messy things that need to be laundered. Jim's uniforms get all sorts of wonderful things on them i.e bodily fluids, blood, etc. from his patients. Katie is a NON-STOP puker which leaves a lovely scent on towels and her bibs if not washed with a good detergent.
I will be honest, my motivation to try this homemade stuff, was simply a financial one. Most people are doing this because it is all natural and better for the environment and for us, but I am NOT one that falls into that group. I am tired of spending $20 every few weeks for a box of detergent!! So when it was brought to my attention that this would cost me less than that, I was willing to give it a try.
So I purchased all of my needed supplies for $26-it only cost $21 for the supplies but I had to buy a container to keep it in and I didn't have one with a locking lid in case it got knocked over or dropped(I'm clumsy so I plan for these sort of things) and that was $5 on sale.
The goods: Borax, washing soda, and TWO bars of Fels-naptha soap. I don't know why I only have one in the picture.
Now it is SO easy....
You mix 3 cups of borax.
3 cups of the washing soda
and then you grate up the fels-naptha and use 3 cups of that. I used my good old square cheese grater. I had started using the food processor, but I didn't want to dull the blade with this, and plus I got a decent arm workout doing it by hand. And it seriously took me 10 minutes.
Just mix the ingredients together in a container and you are good to go.

I have an HE front loading machine so I use 1/8 of a cup per load.
The first load I did was whites. I really wanted to test this stuff out on the hard stuff. I did NOT use any bleach because I wanted to see if it would clean by itself. Imagine my surprise when the clothes(dirty socks and all) came out sparkly white!! And the smell....it was good. It just smells clean and fresh. But I use dryer sheets that help kind of give it my kind of scent:)
I have since washed 5 loads of Katie puke towels and bibs(she really wanted to try it out too I guess. :/) and I just finished washing Jim's uniforms. It didn't leave behind any build up or residue, and the clothes look great!
I am SOLD!
The next time I need to make more, I will only have to buy the 2 bars of fels-naptha soap, because I have plenty of the other stuff. The bars cost $1.29 so I am going to save TONS of money!! I LOVE that!!
I purchased everything at Raley's because that is where I shop. I tried to get the stuff at Target but they don't carry a single item(at least our store didn't) I was told Walmart has all of it, and its probably cheaper than Raleys but I didn't have plans to go to Walmart just for that. Next time I am there though I will check the price and compare.
There are also recipes for liquid detergent if you prefer that.
Try it for yourself. I bet you will be thanking me:)

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

A long day

Today was LONG. If I hadn't had a coffee at 3:45, I would totally fall asleep right now.
Katie was up at 4 with an upset stomach. My alarm goes off at 6, and by the time I got her settled and cleaned up it was after 5, so I just stayed up.
Jayme, Emy, and Lily came over and played for a little while. It was nice for Reese to have someone to play with other than me!
Katie had an appt to have her wheelchair adjusted to fit her new back brace and positioning. I had both girls with me, and when I got there I put Katie in the double stroller, and she didn't fit!!UGH! The seat back is either too reclined or too upright for her new straighter torso. I used to kind of turn her to the side just a little so that her legs would fit in, but I can't do that now. I am bummed. That stroller made my life SO much easier when I had both the girls by myself. Reese is at the age where she no longer sits still or will let you hold her for more than 30 seconds. So I need to come up with a new game plan for things like doctors appts, karate, etc.
Caleb had his first basketball practice of the season tonight. I was home with the little ladies, but I guess he did really well, and has really improved! I'm excited to see him play!
Katie isn't feeling good this evening. I think she caught a bug. And we know with her that means puke puke and more puke. I feel so bad for her. I feel helpless, because there is nothing I can do to "fix" it. It just has to run it's course, and fingers crossed it is short lived. She usually bounces back pretty quickly, I just worry because it is so soon after her surgery.
Hopefully she can sleep tonight, selfishly I would like to sleep too;) and is feeling better tomorrow!

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Adios Bottles!!

I finally sucked it up and took away bottles from Reese. Man I wish I had done this MONTHS ago!!
She totally didn't even notice! She was only getting one at bed time so it wasn't a huge attachment issue.
So I threw them away!
Now we just need to break the paci habit. That one will be a little more difficult I think.
But I'm in no rush:)

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Just Reese

I took this picture of Reese in the tub tonight. I think it pretty much sums up her personality! And just so you have the full picture, she was screaming at the top of her lungs when I took this, having the time of her life!

Saturday, January 7, 2012

Up to date

I feel like I haven't had a second to sit and write any blog entries. But I finally got caught up so here you go:)
Katie came home on Tuesday night. Just one day short of being in the hospital for two weeks! She is doing incredibly well. I seriously can't believe how great she seems to be feeling. She has a back brace that wraps around her torso to keep her straight when she is moving around, so basically whatever she will tolerate we can do.
Her incision is so crazy.
The top is just steri-stripped, but the bottom half is stapled. I know the picture is kind of nasty, she developed a HUGE allergic reaction to something on her skin, as you can see. It is kind of all over her. They at first thought it was the spray adhesive they use in the OR to attach the drapes, but then she kept getting new rashes and irritation in the hospital. So we still don't know what it is from. She still has quite a bit of discoloration on her skin, so hopefully it lightens up and goes back to her normal and doesn't scar!

Reese is fully recovered from her walking pneumonia. She is back to her full of piss and vinegar self. She spends most of her days running around and screaming at the top of her lungs. Happy or sad, she LOVES to just scream.
Her favorite things to say are:
"What's that?"
"Sissy"
"woof"
"thank you"
She is just too cute for words!

Caleb goes back to school on Tuesday(YAY!) this three weeks of break is too long! The kids got SO many amazing Xmas gifts, so he has been very occupied with them. He is at the age where we have to force him to come out of his room, so we don't see him much:) ohhh to be a teen...

Jim worked his first shift at AMR this week. I think the transition is going pretty smoothly. Obviously he has to learn some things, and they have a very different way of operating, but I think it is a great thing for Jim. He seemed MUCH happier when he came home too vs. the bad mood he has been coming home in for the last month or so.
He is trying to get ready to take his Paramedic tests. Not sure when he will be taking those yet, hope its sooner rather than later!

As for me, I have been just doing my everyday tinkering around the house. Working two days a week. Nothing too exciting. Everyone else in this family is keeping me so busy, I hardly have time for ME:) I did get a night out with a friend the other night. We had a great time drinking margaritas, and complaining about our husbands(just kidding!!:)

Life is good. I'm happy to have all of my kids under one roof again, Jim is home 4 days a week now, and we are all healthy.
XOXO